Women find it intriguing to open up to a guy, simply because they think, opening up themselves makes their relationship, flawless. Well, its vice versa too. But what everyone fails to realize is that, once the mystry is lost then there is nothing left to look forward to.
The recipe for a successful relationship is to keep the mystery going.
The question on how one would keep the lamp burning is such a cliche, because one simply keeps on asking for more, but little do they realize that they have the power to do it themselves. Its no miracle to stick to a single person whom you were attracted to in the first place. It's always about taking it slowly and keeping a surprise element. It's always about being creative. It's always about looking and feeling new every time you meet, be it for coffee, or a fresh juice for that matter.
Once both of you realize your transparent as bottled water, your done. PUFF!!, you wish to vanish.
The reasons why you lose interest in your guy/girl.?
New pasture: We, have the tendency to look beyond what we see and hence we are never satisfied with what we have, and what we need. Lacking the patience to take a walk on the side walk, or going to the place where you first met helps the spark. Once in a while, you can talk about those stammers and stutters you had when you first spoke to each other. You can take her to a nice cozy beautiful romantic place once in a blue moon. You can buy him his favorite movie CD, and cook for him his favorite food.
Competition: When you have to face competition with equally good or better once in your own gender, there are chances of you losing interest in your partner, you tend to loath what you have and you go for what you want. So keep yourself updated to the changing trend and at times it will be good to change your shape once in a while. Beef up a bit if you have been skinny for a while, or reduce your body mass is you don't fit into those jeans that she bought you and vice versa.
Listen to each other: Once in a while, you can take your partner somewhere he/she loves to go. Dine to your partners choice. It's about communicating than compromising. simply let it flow.(eh, words that is).
It is kind of easy to break up. We do have golden words like, "I need some space', or " It's not you, its me", doled around us for good. Finding faults in a realtionship is more easy than building a strong one.
Now if you are still reading this, then i am sure you are finding reasons to break up with him/her .
How to lose a partner in less than 8.57 minutes.
Tell your partner the astrologer said so.Tell him/her your Kundli's don't match. Parents are the best ways in and out of a relationship. "They will never accept you, I am sorry my booobooo", is the first commandment on how to lose him/her without hurting a bit.
If both of you have a tendency to talk over the phone all night, then go all over the place when your put on hold. It's like the one way ticket out of the love tunnel.
You went for the movie without me, you did not call me last night, who were you with last night, all of these works all the time.
The most absurd reasons to break up are mostly, 'I am traveling', or 'I have to focus on my career' and even 'I have already told you i am a jerk/bitch', if you cant deal with it, then leave it.
The key is in driving your partner crazy.Breaking up with him/her is a cake walk, but only until you realize you loved him/her more than your deeds and words.
The recipe for a successful relationship is to keep the mystery going.
The question on how one would keep the lamp burning is such a cliche, because one simply keeps on asking for more, but little do they realize that they have the power to do it themselves. Its no miracle to stick to a single person whom you were attracted to in the first place. It's always about taking it slowly and keeping a surprise element. It's always about being creative. It's always about looking and feeling new every time you meet, be it for coffee, or a fresh juice for that matter.
Once both of you realize your transparent as bottled water, your done. PUFF!!, you wish to vanish.
The reasons why you lose interest in your guy/girl.?
New pasture: We, have the tendency to look beyond what we see and hence we are never satisfied with what we have, and what we need. Lacking the patience to take a walk on the side walk, or going to the place where you first met helps the spark. Once in a while, you can talk about those stammers and stutters you had when you first spoke to each other. You can take her to a nice cozy beautiful romantic place once in a blue moon. You can buy him his favorite movie CD, and cook for him his favorite food.
Competition: When you have to face competition with equally good or better once in your own gender, there are chances of you losing interest in your partner, you tend to loath what you have and you go for what you want. So keep yourself updated to the changing trend and at times it will be good to change your shape once in a while. Beef up a bit if you have been skinny for a while, or reduce your body mass is you don't fit into those jeans that she bought you and vice versa.
Listen to each other: Once in a while, you can take your partner somewhere he/she loves to go. Dine to your partners choice. It's about communicating than compromising. simply let it flow.(eh, words that is).
It is kind of easy to break up. We do have golden words like, "I need some space', or " It's not you, its me", doled around us for good. Finding faults in a realtionship is more easy than building a strong one.
Now if you are still reading this, then i am sure you are finding reasons to break up with him/her .
How to lose a partner in less than 8.57 minutes.
Tell your partner the astrologer said so.Tell him/her your Kundli's don't match. Parents are the best ways in and out of a relationship. "They will never accept you, I am sorry my booobooo", is the first commandment on how to lose him/her without hurting a bit.
If both of you have a tendency to talk over the phone all night, then go all over the place when your put on hold. It's like the one way ticket out of the love tunnel.
You went for the movie without me, you did not call me last night, who were you with last night, all of these works all the time.
The most absurd reasons to break up are mostly, 'I am traveling', or 'I have to focus on my career' and even 'I have already told you i am a jerk/bitch', if you cant deal with it, then leave it.
The key is in driving your partner crazy.Breaking up with him/her is a cake walk, but only until you realize you loved him/her more than your deeds and words.
2 comments:
Interesting read. Somewhere it sounded like that movie Ugly truth.
Well, the truth is always ugly, Aint it, Arun??
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